Comments on: horrid experience

By: Miki

Miki — Sun, 11 Apr 2004 14:53:17 +0000

Good luck, dodo. Whatever happens. It’s crap that it’s internal to the family. Sad that there’s such a lack of family spirit.

By: dodo

dodo — Fri, 09 Apr 2004 14:25:43 +0000

if they’d listen to anyone in the family we wouldn’t be wanting to go to court. who likes to go to court? but if we have to, then we have to.

By: natasja

natasja — Thu, 08 Apr 2004 19:05:15 +0000

dear dodo, i hope this thing will get resolved. Just keep in mind that you and Andy are good people and that’s really worth something. Sometimes people can dissapoint you so badly and it’s hard to understand because all you want to do is make people feel good. I experienced that the best thing is just to ignore those people, they will only do you harm. But i understand that it’s difficult in your situation. Maybe you can find someone in your family to talk to them. Good luck!

By: dodo

dodo — Thu, 08 Apr 2004 16:06:16 +0000

well i’ve moved out from my parents’ and living on my own for 2 years. this problem is not caused by living together. really just by helping someone who don’t really deserve to be helped altho these people are your relatives.

By: sarah

sarah — Thu, 08 Apr 2004 14:14:07 +0000

I went through something similar with my parentss. My boyfriend and I lived with my parents briefly and they were intolerable. I was pregnant to top it off. We just stayed there for a bit until we could get our apartment. My lesson I learned ist his. I don’t think that two couples can live in the same house when related. I hope it gets better. My aunt (father’s sister helped us to get out of there before we had our apartment because it was that bad and I thought I might misscarry. I did dream about it and after that dream I told mark we have to get out.

By: Grace

Grace — Thu, 08 Apr 2004 03:54:31 +0000

:-( I hope this will be settled soon. It’s really bad that relationships, especially with family or relatives, can get destroyed due to money but it happens :-(
Take care.

By: Ara

Ara — Thu, 08 Apr 2004 01:03:31 +0000

I’m really sorry to hear that, Dodo. I hope things get better for you. It’s okay to take a break from the internet, sometimes its best to do so.

By: jenny

jenny — Thu, 08 Apr 2004 00:28:18 +0000

i’m sorry you and andy have to go through this kind of situation. i know what you mean about how people can be selfish…i have a few relatives that did the same thing to my parents. it really makes you think about how low people can go

By: Timmie

Timmie — Wed, 07 Apr 2004 23:15:40 +0000

People can just be so dispicable when it comes to money. I really hope you don’t have to go to court – against your *relatives* even!

By: Moritz

Moritz — Wed, 07 Apr 2004 20:58:46 +0000

Remember that there is nothing stable in human affairs; therefore avoid undue elation in prosperity, or undue depression in adversity. Socrates (469 BC – 399 BC)