i haven’t had much interest participating the cyber world because i’ve been stuck with most horrid experience since i moved out of my parents’ house. i’m totally amazed by some people’s selfishness. it seems no matter how much andy and i help them, they will want to feed on us even more. it’s really sad since they are part of andy’s family. we’ve been gathering evidence to prepare ourselves for a potential court case because they basically denied all the money we’ve given them due to our kindness because we had no paperwork with them and they have no legal obligation to repay us. it’s hard to believe we are having people with such low diginity dragging us back while we are so ready to move on. going to the court will be our last resolution to solve the financial problem. we are not afraid to do it. we’ve been giving in for too long. it’s the time to fight for our rights.
all is said, i can’t help to be depressed. having relatives like them is just not something i can wake up smiling about.
i will give a more detailed accout of what is going on in a private entry after it’s settled.
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That sounds terrible, Dodo, both for you and Andy. I hope it won’t get so bad as to end up in court.
Remember that there is nothing stable in human affairs; therefore avoid undue elation in prosperity, or undue depression in adversity. Socrates (469 BC – 399 BC)
People can just be so dispicable when it comes to money. I really hope you don’t have to go to court – against your *relatives* even!
i’m sorry you and andy have to go through this kind of situation. i know what you mean about how people can be selfish…i have a few relatives that did the same thing to my parents. it really makes you think about how low people can go
I’m really sorry to hear that, Dodo. I hope things get better for you. It’s okay to take a break from the internet, sometimes its best to do so.
😦 I hope this will be settled soon. It’s really bad that relationships, especially with family or relatives, can get destroyed due to money but it happens 😦
I went through something similar with my parentss. My boyfriend and I lived with my parents briefly and they were intolerable. I was pregnant to top it off. We just stayed there for a bit until we could get our apartment. My lesson I learned ist his. I don’t think that two couples can live in the same house when related. I hope it gets better. My aunt (father’s sister helped us to get out of there before we had our apartment because it was that bad and I thought I might misscarry. I did dream about it and after that dream I told mark we have to get out.
well i’ve moved out from my parents’ and living on my own for 2 years. this problem is not caused by living together. really just by helping someone who don’t really deserve to be helped altho these people are your relatives.
dear dodo, i hope this thing will get resolved. Just keep in mind that you and Andy are good people and that’s really worth something. Sometimes people can dissapoint you so badly and it’s hard to understand because all you want to do is make people feel good. I experienced that the best thing is just to ignore those people, they will only do you harm. But i understand that it’s difficult in your situation. Maybe you can find someone in your family to talk to them. Good luck!
if they’d listen to anyone in the family we wouldn’t be wanting to go to court. who likes to go to court? but if we have to, then we have to.
Good luck, dodo. Whatever happens. It’s crap that it’s internal to the family. 😦 Sad that there’s such a lack of family spirit.